When we got the phone call that Darlene (Mrs. Harold) Kauffman had passed away at MAM headquarters early Wed. morning, Sept.14th, I had trouble believing it was for real. We ladies sat around after church discussing funeral plans as far as the meals went, but no one mentioned lodging for anyone. Once the viewing and funeral plans were tentatively made, phone calls began pouring in.
So, without really delegating a lodging committee, I became it by default.
First, Stephan Gingerich called from Guatemala to see if it would suit for his parents, Mark and Norma to stay with us while they were up for the funeral. Would it????!!!!! I would've been dreadfully disappointed had they not come here and it pleased me to know that they requested to stay with us.
I called to Maryland and talked with Mama Doris and told her to plan to stay here if she could come. It wasn't long until Sharon Eby, also from MD called to see if it would suit us for her and Duane to stay here. Sure.
Then, it was Verton and Anne Miller from Arkansas. But they weren't sure if they were coming so I wasn't to save space for them. OK. Who's next?
Sharon called back and said that Ian and Dorcas Alpires from Salisbury, Md was coming too. Now problem. Still had enough beds.
Vernon called Melvin Kuepfer from Ontario and told him he was welcomed to stay here. I thought he could sleep in Marv's bed.
Next, Mark's daughter Sarah called and she planned to come and surprise her parents. Now, how could I even think of placing her anywhere but here?
Sarah and Janelle
It seemed I barely had time to put the phone down when Edgar Frey's wife Sadie called and said that they were bringing Melvin plus Mervin Kuepfer, Elizabeth Weber and Katie Jantzi.
Ohhh---I couldn't say no to Mervin....he is a very special person to our family. He and his wife Norma, spent 3 months in Novillero with us in 1997, encouraging us when we were at a point of discouragement. He could sleep in Marv's room too. And..... Elizabeth, Mark's youngest sister.....she's been my friend since we were about 10 years old. She HAD to stay here too.
I decided that we were full up so the others could stay with Ted Miller's.
I had just made those arrangements when Leighton Zook's wife called and said that they were bringing Mark's oldest son, James and his wife Sylvia. Oh my, Leighton has been one of Marvin's good friends since Leighton's served at MAM in the mid '90's. Also, there was James'....no way could they be parceled out to another place.
James, Silvia, Sharon and Norma
But, I was running out of room! Then Sharon called and said that Wilmer Lehman was with them. So, Marv's room was filled and he took the couch. Actually, he usually does anyway. 
Wilmer and Mark
I called John and JoEllen Weaver who gladly hosted the Zooks. Leighton's parents, Tim and Kathy came down and joined them there and we also sent Ian's over there too.
Last of all, Verton's called and needed a bed too. I called a couple other places but it didn't suit them so we quickly cleaned up Jonny's old bedroom downstairs and took a bed down and fixed up one more bedroom.
Mark's and Verton's came Saturday and the rest on Sunday afternoon. Duane's load arrived just as we were returning from the fellowship meal at church. I served supper to our guests and we all enjoyed our mini MAM reunion. Some of these people we hadn't seen for years!
By the way, Norma shared what on her heart to the ladies' SS class, Verton had the men's class and Mark preached so we all got a break. 
The viewing was held at Shiloh Sunday evening, although it was nip and tuck for the body to arrive, what with Independence Day in Guatemala and getting the body released from the Airport, etc. The family couldn't just take the casket, it had to be released to a funeral home before it could leave the airport in Chicago. Its a good 6 hours from here to Chicago and the body wasn't released until 10 AM. The funeral home here in Ladysmith had to give another funeral home the authority to get the body. Red tape.
It drizzled all day Sunday but Monday dawned clear and absolutely gorgeous. After a breakfast of pancakes, lil smokies, bacon and juice...(and of course, the Guatemalan coffee) we all headed over for the funeral.
Ted Miller moderated, Victor Ovalle had devotions, and Phil Wenger (Harold's granddaughter's husband who is a minister at Beloit, WI) preached. Another grandson-in-law Ezra Martin lead the singing. Then, Mark, Duane, Melvin, and Urie Sharp gave short talks. Oh yes, Harold also got up and spoke too.
It was a very nice service and we were glad to see so many people we knew. Juan and Luky Ovalle, Luky's sister, Flor and Freddy, Lloyd Mast's, Tim Korver's, oh there were many. 
Mark's were the only ones to stay over last night. They left this morning after we served breakfast to them, Harold and Victor. They took Victor along with them to Beloit to make connections to the O'hare Airport tomorrow morning. We enjoyed every minute of our time together. But after they left and the weather became cloudy and drizzly again, suddenly I realized that I was exhausted. I actually took 2 naps today! I must've been running on adrenalin.
Someone said something about us being about to host 15 people and my reply was that I'd rather be on the lodging committee anytime than to be on the food committee. Now, THAT would scare me! 
PS. Just for your info....Marv and Jonny slept on couches, Vernon and I in Lavina's room and the girls camped out in the semi.
Maybe I can add photos later.
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